Regrets

 In the song 'My Way' lyrics by Canada's own Paul Anka and made famous by Frank Sinatra, the second verse says "Regrets, I've had a few, but then again, too few to mention."  I like that because I think regrets are counterproductive and I refuse to live my life with regrets.  I also believe that there are no wrong decisions.  If you make a decision that doesn't work out like you hoped, rather than being regretful and using language like "I should have, what if, if only".....figure out what you can learn from the choice.  Having regrets only serves to make you feel sad, defeated, and overwhelmed.  For every negative there is a positive.  Every coin has 2 sides.  Turn that frown upside down.  Of course there is a period of adjustment after a disappointment, but having a pity party that goes on and on will not help to get on with living your life to the best of your ability.  You hold the key!! 

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